Make it a goal to be happy, not to find proof of why you can not.
A lot of people are really interested in all kinds of news, «truth movements», conspiracy theories that are actually true and so forth. People rage all over social media for others to wake up and how some scary elite is controlling their lives and our planet.
Many people are fear-mongering about the media’s fear-mongering!
Alternative news source clickbait-headlines about your food and water being poisoned are going viral.
I used to spend a lot of energy learning about all of this stuff. I saw it as really important for people to be informed about how bad of a state planet earth and our society was in.
I have spent several months reading, watching videos and lecturing people on how the world was going to shit and that the whole world was sleeping. By spending energy on this material, I saw more of it everywhere. Confirmation bias.
By seeing catastrophe, pain, deceit and all kinds of madness almost wherever you turn, you create your reality from this point of view. Your actions, your energy, your vibration, your entire way of life will emit a lack of trust – you expect negative things. And perhaps that everyone else is too numb to understand. A vibration of hopelessness.
By doing this your body will pump out the stress hormone cortisol and your body language will display that you are uncomfortable, creating a negative feedback loop that can result in people reacting negatively to you. (Read more here). This domino effect is not helping.
IF this is in any way accurate for you, chances are you are not particularly happy.
«If you’re not happy, you’re not helping!» – Bentinho Massaro
Paraphrased from the video:
«You don’t need to learn about the world. Learn to follow your heart. It already knows about the world. Whatever is inspired from joy and excitement, comes from the heart.
When you are enjoying life, you can take care of the world in the most effective manner without ever thinking about the world. You don’t have to think about the environment, sign a petition or share anything on Facebook. (Of course, if these things excite you, you should.)
When you follow your love for life and your happiness you can trust that you take care of and inspire the world in the most positive way possible.
If you are concerned about the world and unhappy, you should not think about what you can do to help out. Instead you should think what you can do today to be more happy. It would be a cruel universe if the path for you to help the world is residing in your own unhappiness. It is not.»
So stop trying to fix everyone else and evolve yourself.
«They say you’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with. That goes the other way too. You’re one of those five for other people. When you evolve, the people around you can’t help but evolve. And those people are some other people’s significant five. The ripples eventually spread around the entire globe.» – G
The way to stop a thing you do not like is not to fight and resist it. Acknowledge it, and move on. Do not expend energy on it if it does not serve you. This will only create more resistance and negativity. Focus on your own evolution and happiness and you will see all the beauty in the world instead of all the suffering.
And if you are becoming more happy yourself by seeing the beauty, you actually are helping those who suffer.
Remember that you are the one in control of your state of being, and thus, your reality. Not Big Pharma, rich families, bankers, the aliens, the Illuminati or anyone else. That is why it feels bad when you think and act like they are. It’s not true. It’s not in alignment with what you know deep inside. So follow your heart and joy, and be a leading light helping the world revel in happiness!
Now spread this to the world, eh.
Peace and love conspiring to help you,
Related article: Changing the World Starts Within YOU, from Your Happiness